How many of you are sexpats?
Is my fob Chinese girl friend that studies In America a sexpat? I feel like she just really clingy, and wants me mostly for sex. She not really my gf... but we've been banging for about a month. But for real, she literally washes my legs in the shower for me, like I'm some emperor. Is she trying to use me for citizenship??? Hapa kids??? I need the low down on Chinese fobs! What's their endgame?
There's nothing wrong with a woman with ambition, so long as she can do everything herself, without any male assistance. Like, I don't give a fuck if she dreams of being a "boss babe" and opening her own hair salon. I'm not fucking paying for that dream, she can achieve it herself. Unfortunately, I know too many guys who get siphoned by their girlfriends wives and their bullshit dreams. They earn all the real money while their women squander it on meaningless bullshit like nail art supplies, MLM products (stupid shit like HerbaLife), etc. They don't want to do any of the real work, they essentially want to play dollhouse.
Do you usually do SEA or SA or CIS region?
Actually, none of those. I generally don't find Southeast Asian women attractive, so it was never high up on my list. Hey, I gotta do whatever makes my dick happy, sue me. I am considering making an exception for Singapore, however.
I've never been to South America. No real reason, just never gave it any thought. I do know that South American women, especially the Colombians and Brazilians, can be smoking hot. And apparently Venezuelans are heavily discounted right now, though I have no idea how attractive a woman fleeing an actively socialist country can be.
I had to look up what CIS means; bunch of ex-soviet countries, it looks like. Again, never been there, though as a former k regular, I have always been interested in the cheeki breeki (no, I'm not a commie).
Give me your list anon.
I'll assume you read my entire post. Again, I only started mongering recently. My list isn't extensive, and my tastes can get expensive.
Amsterdam
I know it's far from perfect. But I was dipping my toes in the water, just to see if I would like it. As many other Johns would attest, the service can be subpar, but I lucked out and got a few decent ones.
Switzerland
This is about as baller-tier as you can get on a middle-class salary. All the good stuff you heard about Swiss sex clubs is true. The facilities were great and the sex was top-notch. My best sexual memories came from here.
Hong Kong
From my limited research, their whores are only slightly more expensive than SEA (I'd say about $10-20 USD more). Most of the whores are Chinese, and for what you pay, the service is surprisingly good. They also like to get kinky; I got my first "Fire & Ice" there (it's when she sucks your dick with a mouthful of mouthwash). For the price point & quality of service, I would definitely come back, but unfortunately, China is really fucking Hong Kong up for tourists and citizens alike, so I don't know if I will.
I fucking love Taiwan, but mongering is uneconomical over there.
Prostitution laws make it difficult for them to work in Taiwan. It's essentially in legal limbo, so anyone involved in this industry is pretty hush-hush about it. You have to go out of your way to find them, and you might never find any unless you have prior connections (ie. a local Taiwanese friend, or a fellow sexpat who has a Taiwanese friend). And I have no such connections.
And let's say you finally find some prostitutes. According to a few reports, they can cost somewhere around 2000-3000 TWD (about 70-100 USD). Don't be surprised if there's a foreigner tax (another 1000 TWD) on top of that. At that price, it's very unlikely you'll get a qt Taiwanese. Chances are she'll be some SEA reject. No idea why you'd want to pay double, triple, or even quadruple for an older, uglier, HIV-positive Thai. Taiwan has seen a significant uptick in HIV infections because of them.
Some people will tell you that prostitution may be available in certain night markets, but that's incredibly sketchy. Again, you're likely to run into HIV-positive SEA rejects. There's also a small minority of old Taiwanese ladies who have been selling their bodies since the Chinese Civil War, and they're still turning tricks. If you're white, and a Taiwanese granny greets you in English with "Hello, Joe!" (their clients back in the day were American GIs), she's a prostitute.
In short, not worth it. I wouldn't bother with Tinder, because half the users are non-Taiwanese (usually white, Filipinos, Chinese-Canadians, Chinese-Americans, and a few blacks). If you want to try scoring a qt Taiwanese chick through a dating app, you'll have to try one that's more popular with Taiwanese, and you might need to know how to write in traditional Chinese.
I know, it sounds incredibly shady, right? The justification I hear the most often is that it's for the escort's safety, in which case I can kind of understand, since the US has a lot of unsavory people living in it. But on the other hand, it's a major invasion of privacy, and if the agency is less than reputable, I can see this easily turning into a blackmail scheme.
I take it that UK escorts don't have a stringent vetting process. And thank fuck for that, because I never use my real name when mongering.
in my perception going overseas to get laid already suggests you can't get laid in your own country, so for someone to take the pathetic step of traveling to a country where they can "locationmaxx" but then bother wasting hours and hours of time and money to convince themselves they have game, is a little amusing
If you're going to fly overseas JUST to get laid, why not take it to its logical conclusion? completely and utterly take advantage of the discrepancy in currency valuation, in poverty, in your status as a westerner and fuck dozens of girls for $30-60 dollars a pop? Why would you stop short of that and go on dates like a fag? I go overseas to have four 19 year olds dressed like schoolgirls bending over and showing me their buttholes and pussies inches from my face while i sit in the corner of a dirty, red neon lit gogo bar for like ~12 dollars. see my point?
I think the defining characteristic is you travel predominantly to exploit the economic disparity and pay for sexual experiences you otherwise could never have. I think its a good experience for 99% of men.
BJ bar workers are generally bottom of the barrel by default. The women who are either too ugly or too old to turn tricks have to resort to this lower-paying gimmick. They can't make as much money as a standard prostitute, but this is basically the only opportunity left for them in the sex industry. That's also the reason why they cost a lot less. You're getting limited service by a substandard woman. Economically, this makes sense. Her having sucked off an Indian should be the least of your concerns. Chance are she's 38 years old and looks like a man (despite not being trans in either direction). If you accept the terms & conditions of this bar, you can afford to make another concession.
Now if you're talking about actual prostitutes you can take into your hotel room and fuck, yes, they tend to be picky. Many outcall prostitutes & escorts reject Indians, because they tend to be terrible at haggling, and their bedside manners are needlessly violent. There's no gentle lovetaps or spanking of the bum, they'll actually full-on choke or slap them bitches with gusto; it ain't foreplay, it's straight-up violence. This isn't just true for Thailand, this surprisingly applies to many other countries.
